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Okay, is it wrong to get upset when someone's giving you advice? Okay.. Let me refraise that. Is it wrong to get upset when someone's trying to literally change you? I mean, I had this.. Person.. In my life. He was.. Confusing. He said he like me for who I was, but, he was saying stuff like, "oh you would look good with this hair", or "you would look better with this make up", or "Why don't you wear this?" or "Why did you do that to yourself? You looked better before".. I don't know maybe it's just me being me, but it kinda just really bothered me, and I didnt know if I should of or not.

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Chao11 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student General Artist
You shouldn't really listen to him. It sounds almost like manipulation! If he only said like "Oh you should wear your hair like this because I find it would suit you more" and that's all he's ever say then it would be okay, but it sounds like he's trying to make you into the perfect girl he'd like to see. Honestly I bet you look lovely the way you are and you don't have to listen to him. Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you for that then there's a problem.

Hope I could help! <3
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Unknowndemon626 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student Digital Artist
You did help, thank you. Fortunately he's not in my life anymore, so I won't have to listen to him trying to change me anymore!
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Chao11 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student General Artist
Ahh it's no problem! <3 I'm glad he's out of your life! QAQ It's a good thing and I'm glad you didn't give in to him! ;v;
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Unknowndemon626 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Well I have a couple times, but I realized I didnt need him to make my decisions for me
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Chao11 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student General Artist
Ahh it's alright! I'm glad you broke out of it in the end! <3
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Unknowndemon626 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I am too!
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Chao11 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student General Artist
So how are you today? ;v; You doing alright? >v<
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Unknowndemon626 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Yeah I guess
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