Okay, is it wrong to get upset when someone's giving you advice? Okay.. Let me refraise that. Is it wrong to get upset when someone's trying to literally change you? I mean, I had this.. Person.. In my life. He was.. Confusing. He said he like me for who I was, but, he was saying stuff like, "oh you would look good with this hair", or "you would look better with this make up", or "Why don't you wear this?" or "Why did you do that to yourself? You looked better before".. I don't know maybe it's just me being me, but it kinda just really bothered me, and I didnt know if I should of or not.

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You shouldn't really listen to him. It sounds almost like manipulation! If he only said like "Oh you should wear your hair like this because I find it would suit you more" and that's all he's ever say then it would be okay, but it sounds like he's trying to make you into the perfect girl he'd like to see. Honestly I bet you look lovely the way you are and you don't have to listen to him. Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you for that then there's a problem.

Hope I could help! <3